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January/February 2010

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We Need your Ideas on How to Limit TV and Screen Time

The current assessment is that many children are spending seven hours a day looking at a screen – TV, computers, video games, cell phones, etc.

  • If your children complain when you limit their screen time, how do you handle that?

  • What do you say to them?

  • Remember, different techniques work at different ages and with different temperaments.

  • Parents need lots of options to try, so please share yours.

Click here and send you answers to bredehoft@csp.edu

We thank you, and the many parents who need the list will thank you.

When we compile all of your responses we will make the list available on overindulgence.info.

 

Pay for Chores? by Jean Illsley Clarke

“Chores are just part of growing up and kids shouldn’t be paid for doing them!”  Mom Barbara couldn’t understand why the argument.  Papa Ken was adamant.  “They get an allowance but they need to learn that money isn’t free.  They have to earn it.”  Barbara acquiesced reluctantly, but only when Ken agreed to be totally in charge of the payment arrangements To read more...

 

Are You Overindulging Your Child?

Listen to Jean Illsley Clarke Interviewed by Toni Schutta on Voice of America. This 60 minute radio interview is full of insightful and very helpful information for parents and anyone who cares about children. To Listen Click Here.
 

Mark the Date....Hear Jean Illsley Clarke Speak (Admission Free)

Where: Cedar Park Elementary

When: Monday, March 29th 6:30-8:30 pm. For details click here.

 

The Problem with Overindulgence

Listen to Jean Illsley Clarke Interviewed by Aricia E. LaFrance on Spirit-to-Spirit blog talk radio originally aired November 19, 2009. Jean brings this information to us along with ideas to help us move past overindulging our kids and really providing them with the abundance and richness of life that we want to give them. A must hear prior to hitting the stores for your Christmas shopping!
To Listen Click Here
 
Less pampering will help our kids by Jill Marchione Papangelis

VAIL, Colorado — My mother cut my meat for me. Until I was a teenager. That should give some hint of insight into the kind of mother I became.

I have four kids and when they were little, I actually peeled their grapes if they didn't like the skin. I would literally stand there at the kitchen counter, take my paring knife to the lovely, fragile grape, and delicately tear back the skin as if I were performing a circumcision. My kids were home-schooled for many years, so I was also their short order cook — I took four different orders for breakfast, happily preparing four different feasts. ..
To read more...
 
Kids today on tighter leash, but wilder at home: Studies finds major shift in what's considered good parenting

Parents today give their children more freedom at home but keep them on a tighter leash in public, a new study finds. This is the reverse of what was considered good parenting in the early half of the last century, the researcher showed.
To read more...

 

Study 9: Father Personality and Parenting Styles

  • Open to all fathers who wish to participate.

  • By participating in this 20-25 minute study, you will help us understand the connections between personality traits of fathers and their parenting styles. Participants will be informed of our research findings upon completion of this study through our newsletter and on the "Our Research Webpage". Click on the link above to enter the study.

  • Current number of participants as of 2.9.10.....176

  • Number of participants needed for this study....200

 

Study 10: Transition To and Emerging Adulthood

  • Open to those who are 16-33 years of age

  • By participating in this 30-35 minute study, you will help us understand how childhood overindulgence influences the transition to adulthood. Questions of identity, relationship with parents, and spirituality are explored. Participants will be informed of our research findings upon completion of this study through our newsletter and on the "Our Research Webpage". Click on the link above to enter the study.

  • Current number of participants as of 2.9.10......372

  • Number of participants needed for this study.....400

 

Thanks to Research Assistant Mary Slinger who contributed by finding stories to include in this edition of the newsletter.

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